IT’S DARKEST BEFORE DAWN

Ever planned to do something, and with all things set and in place one little unexpected mishap sets everything off the expected course?

“Life unfolds in its own way, and often we’re our own toughest critics, replaying past plans and wondering what could’ve been done differently to avoid mistakes. But sometimes, it’s essential to let things run their course, even when things don’t go as planned. Frustration can creep in, making you question your fit for the task or doubt your abilities.”

Life has had its share of ups and downs for me, but one thing I’ve learned is not to internalize every setback as personal failure. When I lost a job, the reasons given seemed legit, but as time passed, I gained clarity and realized there were more factors at play and some hidden things began to be unearthed, helping me to see that I had not failed. This experience has taught me to be kinder to myself and not let one moment define my self-worth. So many themes and examples I could share but the narrative is the same, do not be quick to beat yourself down. Many of us struggle with this – we let one misstep dictate our entire narrative. It’s time to break free from that cycle and focus on growth, not self-blame.

When darkness surrounds you and the light seems distant, it’s natural to wonder when better days will come. Instead of fixating on the when, try embracing the process. You might not realize it, but with each step, you’re growing, learning, and evolving into the best version of yourself.

Life has thrown me curveballs – pain, sadness, betrayal, loss, and frustration. But one thing I’m proud of is that I haven’t let those experiences define me. Instead, I’ve chosen to grow, and it’s amazing to see the progress I’ve made. Looking back, I smile knowing that every challenge has shaped me into who I am today. You have the same power to blossom, and it’s just a choice away. Remember, setbacks are just that – setbacks. They don’t dictate your worth or potential. You get to choose how you show up, every day. 

5 years from now if you told me I would be a global award winner I wouldn’t have seen it. But time and growth allow dark seasons and moments to pass and build our character, allowing us to be refined.

To you who is feeling that Rudo you don’t understand the pain and frustration is too deep, this cannot get better. I want you to know….it is darkest before dawn, I’m not just saying it I have been there, I’m not just writing a feel good motivation. Your dawn will come, just don’t lose hope even if you don’t see any light but just a dark tunnel…..your dawn will come. Keep hope alive, never stop believing especially in yourself.

Five years ago, I wouldn’t have imagined standing where I am today – but growth and time have a way of refining us through the darkest seasons. To anyone feeling like Rudo you just don’t understand the depth of my dark space and troubles, trapped in pain and frustration that feels too deep to overcome, I see you. I know it’s hard to believe things can get better when the darkness feels suffocating. But I’m here to tell you, it’s darkest before dawn. I’ve lived those words so I’m not just offering empty motivation to hype you for a moment, I am saying this is not the end of the book, it’s a chapter. Your dawn is coming, even if all you see right now is a dark tunnel. Hold on to hope, keep believing in yourself, and never give up.

Don’t let any situation destroy confidence in your abilities because you are not defined by circumstances but by the truth of understanding who you are and drawing on the strength of building the best version of you.  

It can only get better, remember its darkest before dawn.