When one has an indepth understanding of “the power of words”, you are very aware of what you say, when you say, to whom you say and WHY you say.

The world we live in was created by words, “let there be light” and there was light, “let there be……”, so just taking from the beginning of time we are shown a compass that we can utilise effectively to create our personal world.

On a daily basis the words spoken either build or contribute to destruction in different forms or just stagnation.

Again the words we speak can be the reason someone is caught up in a space full of self-doubt, lack of confidence in their abilities and strengths because you may be that person talking down at maybe employees, subordinates, friend, siblings, spouse the list is endless.

Being conscious of what comes out of your mouth can be so revolutionary in that you can create a more positive you. Yes it takes time to get rid of some habits of negative self talk, or negative words thrown loosely but it can be done. The more positive you are, the more attractive you are, ie people enjoy your company more.

A question to ask yourself, are you a person that causes tears, pain, or other forms of discomfort when you speak or give advise or opinion? It’s important to speak to build and not destroy of offering advise, it’s important to ask yourself “how would I take these words if they were dumped on me”. This helps you see the many gaps😂 and can cause “ouch” moments of realisation that you need to hit the drawing board.

You see in the coaching journey, we are working the mind, looking at beliefs, words spoken and boy oh boy at times there is so much coming from external people. So my question is which person are you? Are you the reason behind someone’s tears or are you a cheerleader, celebrating others and not seeing threats in their success?

Have you contributed to someone’s mental health issues? I know it may seem so far fetched but I tell you more often a greater percentage speak without listening to the tone their words carry and the impact carried. Hence throwing this challenge to do a “words spoken” audit challenge. You will be surprised at your results. If you want to share your results feel free to get in touch +263772748170. 

If you feel stuck, trying to draw more positivety in your mind so that you have a more positive talk and attitude (this is where personal success begins), get in touch I’ll help you.

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